It’s easy to get stuck in relationships that drain us, believing chaos or mediocrity is the norm. But choosing yourself first is a powerful shift. Start by acknowledging your worth and recognizing the impact of unhealthy relationships. Set boundaries, invest in activities that empower you, and celebrate your independence. Let go of what no longer serves your growth. It’s not selfish—it’s essential. Embrace the life you deserve, and trust that shedding what holds you back will create space for something better.

If I had to guess, you’ve probably been there too. Maybe you didn’t think you worked hard enough to deserve that promotion. Perhaps you blamed yourself when your partner was unkind or believed you didn’t deserve that little treat because you missed a workout. Maybe you felt guilty about taking an hour for yourself because you didn’t finish tasks for your kids. But now, something’s changed. Why now? For me, I simply got tired of feeling unworthy. I started asking, “Why can’t I just have what I want without feeling like I have to overwork or ‘earn it’?”